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On the Other Side of Cancer

Survivors talk about the challenges of life after cancer

Cancer is something to fight, something to conquer. But what happens when it's gone? What does it leave behind? How does it alter a life? And, perhaps the most unsettling question:

Will it come back?

"There are universal challenges for people who have been through cancer treatments and are trying to establish a new normal in their lives," said Karen Hammelef, M.S., director of Cancer Center Patient & Family Support Services. "We want patients to feel empowered to tell us what they're experiencing so we can help to address those issues."

Surviving cancer is not an endpoint; it's a beginning.

Brandy Terwilliger

Age: 28
Hometown: DeWitt, Mich.
Survived: Hodgkin's Disease
Major Concern: Anxiety

Brandy Terwilliger can't stop thinking about cancer. It's hard to get to sleep. It pops into her mind when she gets up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. She has broken down and cried at work.

Cancer is gone from Brandy's body, but not from her thoughts.

Since finishing active treatment for Hodgkin's disease, Terwilliger has noticed her mood can change rapidly. She said she feels like few people understand what she's going through.

"I went through radiation and I was OK with that. I thought, 'If there's anything there, they're probably zapping it, so I'm good," she said. "But to go three months without seeing a doctor is a huge deal. I feel like they're my security blanket."

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Many patients have similar concerns after treatment. Often, they seek out the U-M PsychOncology Clinic, designed specifically to provide counseling to people coping with cancer -- even after treatment ends. Complementary therapies -- such as guided imagery, art therapy or music therapy-may also help to alleviate anxiety.

"It's very normal for patients to seek help to cope with all that has happened to them," she said. "After treatment, people think they're supposed to be back to normal, and they're not. We can help with that."

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This article first appeared in the Winter, 2009 issue of Thrive.    Read it! -- opens as a .pdf document

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• Survivorship Program web pages